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Posted by lake on May 22, 2005, at 12:04:59
in november i lost a friend... i'll be honest, he killed himself in a really horrific way.... and i cant stop feeling low about it, knowing he didn't have to go like that, it wasn't his time.... and every day my heart feels heavy and i cant seem to carry on like i did before. can anybody help?
Posted by Declan on August 10, 2005, at 15:25:18
In reply to how do you know what to do?, posted by lake on May 22, 2005, at 12:04:59
Death by suicide is a lot more painful for those left behind than other deaths. They have stayed with me for decades. Perhaps over time they become less immediately distressing. If you feel that you were to blame (and with suicide you often do?) in any way it makes it harder. You end up living with it.
Declan
Posted by Sebastian on December 24, 2005, at 12:39:32
In reply to how do you know what to do?, posted by lake on May 22, 2005, at 12:04:59
My 2 freinds blew them selfs up on an oil take, think they were playing with lighters, there was jet fuel in the tank and it blew. One died the other survived. My life life has changed a lot since then, 10 years ago. I take life seriously now. Right after it I went back to school, got straight A's and working ever since. I couldn't do it without the meds I take. The pain was horrific. I was there when they blew them selfs up. It was scary. I still can't deal with it.
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